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This Photo Sums It Up

 For now, this is my favorite photo.  It was taken after at least 3 minutes of this, and continued for a few minutes more.  And after this darling little girl had a good look, she went and got her mom and then her sister and then kept coming back for several long stares.

Yes.  This is what it feels like to live in China.  Parents point us out to their children. Children point us out to their parents. Old people can't seem to get enough. Sometimes they do it openly and sometimes on the sly, and obviously it happens more than we see.  

 We are watched.

We are stared at.

We are photographed.

It is why keeping our light on is so important. I hope we reflect the light of Jesus Christ.  I hope the people can feel my love for Him! It's all I can share for now.

(Greta did smile and acknowledged her, but the stare continued and continued and continued.....)

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